The current pandemic has forced a lot of us into a solosexual routine. It's us and whomever we can connect to virtually, if you want a person. That's not bad news, just a challenge sometimes, especially if there's a spouse involved, which for a lot of people is the case.
I find I really like masturbating with another guy, even virtually. I like seeing an erection and tight balls and a guy pleasuring himself. I also like seeing a guy walk around with his cock semi or fully engorged, especially if he stops and shows you how hard it is.
I've been meeting guys from all over. But sometimes no one seems to be online and you need to find an alternative. Too much choice can be a challenge. What are you into right now visually, no feedback, just image. I think this is where the thousand words comes into play...in your head. But like radio, it also opens up your creative juices.